UNRULY

You’ve tried the routines, the hacks, the mindset resets.
You’ve done the “inner work.”

So why does being human still feel so damn hard?
Because you've been trying to keep up in a horse race when you're a mother f*cking, gorgeous, untamed zebra

You know you’re brilliant.
You know your work changes lives.
And still, you find yourself:

→ Crashing after hyperfocus – days of brilliance followed by weeks of nothing.
→ Feeling allergic to pressure – even when the thing is something you want.
→ Overthinking every decision – waiting for the stars (and moon phases) to align.

You’re not the problem. The strategies, *should's*, and systems you've been following are.

And if you decide to keep reading, it’s because you’re ready to create new ways of loving (yourself), living, and leading that actually flow with your unique brilliance, instead of extract, shrink, or dim you.

1. The Round Table (4 Themes)

Reclaiming Precolonial Rhythms → Explore your natural cycles of creation, dismantle capitalist/patriarchal productivity myths, and experiment with what easeful, sustainable consistency looks like for YOU. This sets the foundation for everything else
Self-Accommodation & Power → No more gaslighting yourself. Go from self-abandoning to self-honoring. See your real challenges, stop bypassing, and learn how to actually support and tend to yourself instead of trying to “fix” yourself.
Zone of Genius & Creative Alchemy → Turn your quirks and contradictions into your greatest assets instead of obstacles. This is where you start centering your creative superpowers instead of playing by everyone else’s rules.
Unmasking & Uncensoring → Fully embody your work, message, and visibility without filtering, performing, or diluting yourself. Step into expressing and marketing from a place of truth, not conditioning.

These conversations are the foundation

Come as you are—mask off, brilliance on

Hey I'm Nicole, the crazy one calling you UPPP to your untamed zebra potential

I’m a neurodivergent coach, mom, and podcast host of Rewild + Free. My work lies at the intersection of self exploration, decolonization, and conscious creation. Drawing from nature as a template, I merge intuition, nervous system healing, cyclical awareness, and somatics to create spaces for cycle breaking humans to reconnect with their inner power. I’m here for the ones who feel too much, move too slowly, or think too differently for the systems we’ve been handed—and I believe your way is not only valid, but vital

Why I created UNRULY?

TLDR--Because I’ve lived the internal tug-of-war between brilliance and burnout. Because I masked for years, thinking I was lazy or broken. Because I don’t want YOU to spend another year gaslighting your truth.

I remember lying awake at night, reading forums and joining fb groups desperately seeking answers to questions like, “why do basic life skills seem so much harder for me than everyone else?” Or “what does masked autism in high achieving women look like?” And my favourite “Is autism even real?” LOL

I battled with label aversion—fighting the thought that being “autistic” or having “ADHD” meant I was flawed or not good enough. I was caught in a spiral of self-doubt, wondering if my struggles were simply signs of laziness or if I was somehow making it all up.

I spent years thinking my brain was the problem. I thought if I could just be more disciplined, more consistent, more… normal, then maybe being a human wouldn't feel so f*cking hard?

In the early days of beginning to accept my neurodivergent brain, I witnessed a relentless push-pull in my biz: moments of hyperfocus and brilliant creativity crashed into overwhelming burnout. And cue the shame spirals… Me the coach who coaches about how to avoid burnout CANT BURN OUT!!

And in life, as a mom to an autistic toddler, the pressure to be the “perfect” mom clashed with my own hyper-sensitivities and unpredictable energy. I felt isolated, wondering if I could ever truly meet the expectations set by a world that didn’t understand my rhythms or needs.

As I continue to explore these experiences, I've noticed something striking in the spaces I hang out in:

Online and spiritual communities often paint neurodivergence in extremes—either as an untouchable superpower or as something to dismiss entirely.
Meanwhile, mainstream spaces pathologize or oversimplify every nuance, leaving little room for the messy, real truth of our raw experiences.

That’s when I realized my ongoing struggle with self concept and identity and ongoing friction with always feeling at the edge of belonging, wasn’t about “fixing” myself, it was about dismantling internalized ableism and ultimately, decolonizing my mind.

Even though I excelled at life on paper, I started to see that the pressure to succeed and conform wasn’t my failing; it was a system that didn’t honour the way I was built. And my slow start to moving the needle in my business wasn’t because I wasn't “all in” or “broken”, it was because my business model wasn't right for me.

I was trying to *good girl* my way through the mainstream business “best practices” laid out by neurotypical white dudes. And then I was painfully discouraged each time I’d see the same bro marketing disguised in a pretty dress in the spiritual, heart led, “feminine embodiment” spaces.

This insight became a turning point in my deconditioning journey—a commitment to rewrite the narrative about what it means to be neurodivergent, both in life and in business.

And so, here we are--

--here YOU are...

Reading my love note inviting you to join me inside UNRULY—an unconventional biz lab and round table experience for fellow divergent minds.

→ For the the leaders, weavers and visionaries obsessed with holding space AND making space, a third space in a world struck in a binary.

→ For the zebras ready to unsubscribe to the horse race they never consented to!

It’s a space to gather and sit with the buttload of grief and the clusterf*ck identity shift that can come with exploring neurodivergence as a grown-ass adult—while also celebrating the magic it brings, tending to the challenges, and slowly unmasking our weird, wild wisdom so we can honour every part of who we are.

Together, we’re reclaiming our narrative, dismantling the limiting labels and constructs imposed on us, and building a business and life that truly reflects and honours our truest nature.

UNRULY is not another formula or roadmap.

Not more self extraction or soul sucking strategies.

Not more bypassing or gaslighting your real challenges

But a space to unravel and reclaim everything that’s makes you you—and to live your life and lead your biz your way

This is your invitation to embrace your unruly brilliance.

Let’s get messy, make waves, and do it all without burning out.

Together, let's stir good kinda trouble and create the world we actually want to see

Week 1 (May 1): Opening Circle
Week 2 (May 8): Round Table #1 (Reclaiming Precolonial Rhythms)
Week 3 (May 22): Round Table #2 (Zone of Genius + Creative Alchemy)
Week 4 (May 29): Integration (no call)
Week 5 (June 5): Round Table #3 (Self-Accommodation + Power)
Week 6 (June 12): Round Table #4 (Uncensoring + Unmasking)
Week 7 (June 19): Integration (no call)
Week 8 (June 26): Closing Circle

All calls are Thursdays on zoom at 2pm MT // 4pm ET

*When you join the Unruly Biz Lab:

you get access to TWO additional calls for intimate soundboarding, integration, and intuitive strategy PLUS BONUS biweekly co-working sessions hosted by Nicole
Biz Lab calls will be on FRIDAYS, times TBD, co-created with group
Biz Lab spaces are capped at 15 for intimacy

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"Nicole is able to reflect back to us what needs to be seen with this beautiful energy of love and compassion. She sees the greatness within us that is ready to burst forth and helps to initiate the deconstruction of whatever is in the way of that greatness. Through working with Nicole I've been able to shift away from seeing myself as broken. I've been able to dig up the fears, imposter syndrome, and limiting beliefs that have been holding me back and instead plant seeds of belief in myself, in my worthiness and my creative capacity."

Christine

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What if I don’t identify as neurodivergent?
You don’t need a formal diagnosis to be here. If you identify with being wired differently, and resonate with masking, burnout, or feeling like the world wasn’t built for your rhythm—you belong. UNRULY is about honouring your lived experience, not fitting a label.
Tell me more about the payment options and risk free window
Extended payment plans are available by request—just send me a message (email at hi@nicolepasveer.com or DM on IG @nicolepasveer).
If you’re in Canada, I can send you a checkout link in CAD to avoid the conversion headache!

I offer a 10-day risk-free window. If you attend at least 2 live calls, join the Slack group, and still don’t feel aligned, I’ll offer you a refund—no hard feelings. I trust your discernment.
What if I want to upgrade to the Biz Lab later
Totally possible! You can start with the Round Table and upgrade to the full experience if space allows. I'm capping the Biz Lab at 10 to keep the space intimate.
How much time will this take each week?
UNRULY is designed to nourish, not overwhelm. Round Table calls will be approximately 90 minutes depending on level of engagement; and the Biz Lab is an optional space for integration. Biz lab calls will be 2 hours and biweekly co-working sessions are 60 minute drop in style. This is about pacing with your capacity and more importantly, learning to TRUST YOUR PACE.
Will there be replays if I can’t make it live?
YES. All sessions will be recorded so you can tune in at your own pace. Your presence is welcome live or later—there’s no “falling behind” here.
Is this a safe space?
I can't define safety for you. But my intention is this is a BRAVE sapce. This is a space that actively works to center decolonization, dismantle white supremacy culture, and make room for complexity, nuance, and imperfection.
We’re building collective liberation, one messy, magical conversation at a time.
Can you share more details about the round table call themes?
I'm glad you asked. Here's the intention with each round table, but know that my spaces are fluid and flexible

1️⃣ Reclaiming Precolonial Rhythms (Week 2, May 8)
→ Explore your natural cycles of creation, dismantle productivity myths, and experiment with what easeful, sustainable consistency looks like for you. This sets the foundation for everything else.
→ So that you can stop feeling like a failure every time you fall off a routine and finally understand why your creative cycles don’t fit into a neatly color-coded planner AND break free from the guilt of “not being consistent enough” and instead create in a way that actually honors your body, energy, and seasons of life.

2️⃣ Self-Accommodation & Power (Week 3, May 15)
→ No more gaslighting yourself. Go from self-abandoning to self-honoring. See your real challenges, stop bypassing, and learn how to actually support and tend to yourself instead of trying to “fix” yourself.
→ So that you can stop wondering if you’re just lazy, undisciplined, or self-sabotaging, and finally see that your challenges are real (and supportable) without being a victim to your reality AND stop over-explaining yourself to people who don’t get it and start creating structures and systems that actually flow for YOU, without shame or stifling your creativity

3️⃣ Zone of Genius & Creative Alchemy (Week 5, May 29)
→ Turn your quirks and contradictions into your greatest assets instead of obstacles. This is where you start centering your creative superpowers instead of playing by everyone else’s rules.
→ So that you can stop wasting energy trying to fix your “weaknesses” and instead double down on what actually makes you brilliant AND finally trust that your hyperfixations, obsessions, contradictions, and unconventional ideas are not liabilities—but the exact magick that sets you apart.

4️⃣ Uncensoring & Unmasking (Week 6, June 5)
→ Fully embody your work, message, and visibility without filtering, performing, or diluting yourself. Step into expressing and marketing from a place of truth, not conditioning.
→ So that you can stop rewriting your posts 10 times before sharing and start showing up without filtering, overthinking, or watering yourself down AND finally express your full, unruly self—without fear of being “too much,” “too messy,” or “too performative”
Remind me again what the schedule looks like, and what makes the biz lab different?
If you join the round table ONLY, you're flow will look like this:

Week 1 (May 1): Opening Circle
Week 2 (May 8): Round Table #1 - Reclaiming Precolonial Rhythms
Week 3 (May 22): Round Table #2 - Zone of Genius + Creative Alchemy
Week 4 (May 29): Integration (no call)
Week 5 (June 5): Round Table #3 - Self-Accommodation + Power
Week 6 (June 12): Round Table #4 - Uncensoring + Unmasking
Week 7 (June 19): Integration (no call)
Week 8 (June 26): Closing Circle

All calls are at 2pm MT // 4pm ET

If you join the round table + biz lab, you'll have access to all of the above PLUS two additional biz lab calls on FRIDAYS on weeks 4 + 7 (May 23 and June 13) as well as biweekly drop in co-working/body doubling (times TBD)

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